4 Powerful Steps to Gaining Confidence with Women

Are you always afraid to go on a date or feeling insecure
when meeting with people of the opposite sex? In this article, we discuss some
simple tips to help you gain confidence with women and hopefully improve your
chances of landing a date with your dream girl.

Dating is a source of recreation, and it is important to
always keeping mind that it is also another way of getting to know and meet
more people. This will make it less intimidating in going up to a woman and
talking to her, if you tell yourself that it is pretty much the same as
initiating a conversation with a stranger: scary, but not extremely so.

 

Men all over the world try endlessly to strike upon the
right technique or pick up line, all to secure that first date, and then the
subsequent and elusive second date. No technique or pick up line is going to
work for you, if you lack self confidence. Women look for a man with value, who
can contribute to a relationship. If you lack confidence, however, fret not.
Below are 4 powerful steps to gaining confidence with women.

 

Step 1: Online Dating

Yes, laugh if you want. It is a fallacy that online dating
is only for the old or the desperate, but this is not true. It is a great
meeting ground for getting to know other people first, before deciding if it is
someone you would like to meet in real life. It also gives you the opportunity
to let the real you shine through, especially if you tend to seize up upon
being in the presence of women. This should give you an indication of what
dating is like face to face, it should be about getting to know the other
person better, and not about using techniques to secure a second date.

 

Step 2: Your Personality

No one likes to hear someone spend the entire evening
whining about the bitch at work, or how they deserved a promotion more than
so-and-so. Similarly, keep the negativity away from your date: it is a sure
conversation killer, and you can be assured that your date will never want to
see you again. Be positive, and allow your personality to shine through. That
is the major determinant on whether you will make it to a second date. Being
positive and smiling will also help you to act more confident than you actually
are, and confidence is a big draw for women.

 

Step 3: Location

Suggest a neutral location that your date will feel
comfortable in. Pick somewhere central with people, so that she does not feel
intimidated or threatened. However, do not go overboard and pick an overly
crowded location. This will limit the conversation and the noise levels and
crowd will reduce the interaction and opportunities for you to get to know each
other. Plan out an activity that you think she will enjoy, such as going to the
drive-in movies, or a board game café where you can spend quality time with
privacy for conversation, without it being too threatening for her.

 

Step 4: The Bill

Always pay for the bill. Going Dutch is not an option on the
first date, simply because manners dictate that the guy should pay for the
dinner, or the movies. Paying for the bill without hesitation will also make
your date feel like she is being treated like a princess, and that you value
her company. It is also a subtle signal that you are a stable person who is
capable of treating a woman right.

Follow these 4 simple steps to gaining confidence with
women. Remember, it is not about tricks and techniquesFeature Articles, it is about holding
your nervousness at bay to allow the real you to establish a connection or
rapport with your date.

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